It sucks. I got out of the 4 year long relationship a year ago and well yeah it took me a whole year to recover from it. I was single, healing and just working and spending time with friends and on hobbies. But I got lonely. I was finally over my ex (and I though that there's nothing worst then getting over an ex), so I got back to dating. I want to fall in love again and I believe I can. But now that I am dating, I remembered how hard that actually is. There's nothing exiting about bunch of failed dates and meeting morons. I feel like I'll never fall in love again. And then when I finally meet an amazing guy, he just doesn't feel the same and ghosts out. I'm tired of always wondering if he likes me or not, or if I like him or not, is he gonna call me, what is he gonna think, how's sex gonna be, yada, yada, yada. I am also very picky (not physically) and after my last 2 week relationship that turned out to be another failure, I don't want to date anymore. Fuck this. But in the same time I don't want to be alone. I was even rejected for a one night stand. Like who the fuck in their right, single mind rejects a one night stand, guys? This is ridiculus, I can't even get laid! And I'm good looking.
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I hate dating. I have given up. As of today I am not bothering anymore. I have just run out of energy for dating.1
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Some guys actually aren't into one night stands, crazy, I know! Actually just last night I was talking to a guy friend who said he is not into them, he is more of a relationship person, they are not common but do exist. Anyways, yeah, dating sucks horribly! I have been single for a long time, very long! And I either end up losing interest in someone which sucks because sometimes they are perfectly great guys but I just don't feel it. OR every time I have liked someone it ends up not happening, either they ghost after awhile or end up being a douche or are seeing other people, etc. Makes sense I guess because if they liked me back or weren't douches I would not have been single for as long as I have been. All relationships take is for both people to be on the same page, and that is hard to find. I am now hanging out with someone new and although it is exciting and fun, even this sucks! I am now waiting for him to disappear on me or for something to happen. Even when it is exciting, everything is still so up in the air that it is also anxiety provoking and scary to open up to getting hurt. Again. So yeah, I totally feel you, trust me. But, you have to keep going and do all this to find someone unfortunately, and I guess it will be worth it in the end.0