I have strong feelings for my ex, but he acts like a fuckboy. I feel we'd be better as friends, but my heart wants to be more with him and my mind says it's a bad idea. It's driving me insane. How can I be his friend and lose feelings for him?
I know the logical thing would be to stop talking with eachother, but I can't.
Ah that is one of the hardest things to do could say I have some experience in this. but thing you can do is just view them for what they are not someone you love but a friend. As for losing the feelings of love, that is something out of our control, the heart wants what the heart wants, and ti;ll only stop when it's ready.
It's extremely hard to be friends with someone that you love. It's also hard to just cut them off. So maybe try to ease into it. Talk to him a little less every day. It's kind of a lose-lose situation tbh.