Hi, I'm a 19-year-old male, and I seem to have a huge problem with rejection. I've always been told that I'm very good-looking (I don't want to post a picture), but that doesn't seem to help. I have moderate autism, though I guess I'm also a genius. Anyways, that's besides the point. The point is that I've never actually had success with women; I have no problem approaching them and talking to them, nor is it hard to make my interest known and make a move. I'm pretty assertive and confident, so I have no problems there. But, I've only ever been rejected in my life; I had a girlfriend once for like a month, but that hardly counted.
Anyways, I've approached many women in my life--trying to be friendly, confident, as well as be myself--but I always flame out. Usually I get called creepy, or I'll ask her for her number and she'll just eventually start ignoring me. Others times they just say "why are you talking to me", or they'll just... I don't know. I usually end up responding aggressive to their rudeness, but that's a different story. I mean, literally, I've never actually wooed a woman in my life. It's actually kind of amazing, now that I think about it. So, does anyone know what could be happening--why I never succeed in actually charming her? Please list some possible explanations.
Most Helpful Girl
Ummm well maybe they think your coming on a little to hard you know... sudden... From what I can tell you seem like a awesome guy that just needs to not move so sudden. If you don't know what I mean then just message me.1
Most Helpful Guy
You must talk funny or do something subconsciously that they don't like. Women are judgmental as fuck as you probably know. Doesn't matter if they've got a spotty face, are boring and look like the should be selling 10 quid tricks on a street corner, they'll fuck you off for having a bit of dirt on your shoe or having a days stubble. Most women in the west are a lost cause mate. All women do is watch TV and it corrupts. They think normal is pumping black guys, demanding money, being bisexual, being crude and getting tattoos everywhere. They're about as lady like and normal as an alien visitor. They're too stupid to know it though3