So this guy I'm seeing asked how many guys I slept with and told me that if couldn't Count on my hands how many I've slept with then it's too many. So do yal guys really judge women by their body count?
Thats one of those questions that should remain in Pandora's box. Do not open Pandora's box! But if U must, tread carefully. I have ventured down this path before, and all it did was make me resent the woman. It shouldn't, but I'm human, and if she's been with a lot of guys, it will bother me. It's one of those things that you don't really need to know, and probably is best left alone. Men need to feel like they are superior, we all want to be Alpha Males, the king of the hill, etc. We want to feel like we are the only man that has touched her in that special way, that no other man can do what we can do to her. If you're into him it shouldn't matter if you've been with 2-3-20 guys. As long as it's not anyone he knows personally, it should be all good. But any girl that keeps a running count may not be a keeper anywas.
Depends on the guy. Different guys have different tolerances but I thonk most care to a certian extent. The guys who litterally dont care at all are usually more promiscuous tho.
Personally I care but I dont think Id ask mainly because I dont trust women to tell the truth. Id rather just use my gut instinct and just guess what I think her history is like based on her personality, the way she looks, how she dresses, what she does for fun, whether or not she drinks/does drugs and how frequently.
Based on all of those I feel like I can get a decent guess without ever asking her or letting her know I even care in the first place. For example, I think beautiful girls who are introverted, intelligent, and dont drink or party are not very likely to have a promiscuous pasts. I meet a girl like that I dont even beed to ask about her history as I can be reasonably sure its in the single digits.
The most promiscuous girls are usually extroverted girls in the 4-6 range of attractiveness. They are more likely to seek validation by having casual sex while the player guys lower their standards to get easy sex from them.
If it turns out Im wrong it doesn't matter as long as I believe I was right and am never proven wrong.
Yes, I don't wanna be with a girl that has been with the whole block. Sluts aren't girlfriend material. Most girls also think that sluts aren't boyfriend material. Most people don't want to date a slut...
I don't care... her experience could make her a better lover... the thing is, if she's having sex with me, I'm going to be focusing on my own and her pleasure, not how she pleasured someone else... that's irrelevant
Yes we do, mainly because we want to make sure that we aren't getting shortchanged when it comes to you having sex with us. If a guy knows u have had casual sex most of your adult life, we won't be wanting to wait very long in the relationship to have sex, because you gave it up to other men more quickly.
Plus many men think the more partners a woman has, the less likely she is to be faithful as well as tell to her emotional / psychological stability.
some guys do, some guys don't. fortunately, the guys who do care about this sort of thing tend to be colossal assholes on all other fronts, so it makes it easy to weed out guys you probably aren't going to like, anyway..
The only 2 times I would personally, is 1. Her count is too low. She may be lacking experience in both the bedroom and in long term relationships. And 2. If she had porn star type numbers. Other than that it doesn't phase me one way or the other.
I don't care if she's had past partners, what matters to me is loyalty. I'm not interested in casual sex, and a high partner count says something to me about a person's character and ability to maintain a committed relationship.
I care. Unless all of those prior lovers are deceased husbands, then I'd be afraid of her obvious lack of commitment. But if she is a tenfold widow, I guess I'd have to be afraid that she's the reason they're all dead. So either way, I'm out.
It totally depends on the guy. Personally, I wouldn't want to date anyone who cared about how many guys I've slept with. I just don't see how it matters and the whole idea of women staying "pure" is completely archaic to me.