I've friend zoned two guys in two weeks, both amazing men and both good friends of mine. I love them as friends, but nothing more. I just am at a place now where I can't give 100% to a relationship and I don't want to hurt anyone. I don't want to give 50% when someone gives 100% to me. It's not fair and it's wrong. Until I'm at a place where I feel like I can give all of myself to someone; I don't want to date. After I rejected them, I felt miserable and have cried about it. I even prayed, but I still feel bad for hurting their feelings; even though I was honest with them and myself. What should I do to feel better about everything?
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Well it's really nice that you want to give a guy that you'll date the most love that you can offer. A lot of people just use others for their own pleasure which is wrong. It sucks but I think you're doing the right thing.1