Ok there is this guy I really like it's been like 7 months now. I stay in South africa he is white and I am black I am only mentioning thia because race is currently a big deal in South africa. People are hating on each other due to race. Ok so the bottom line is I thought I'd be over my crush on him by now but it keeps getting worse. I see him regularly sometimes everyday of the week sometimes once a week. So my question is, if a girl was to ask you out how would you prefer her to do it in a way that will not seem too strong and desperate. I am soo scared of rejection so the most simplest way you can advice with. I don't have hia numbers just his email address and I'm kind of scared leaving a trail he can use to make me a laughing stock should he not be interested in me.
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I'm not super up to date on the culture over there so take this with a grain of salt. I don't care if a girl asks me out or if I'm asking them out. What matters is if I want to date that person. If things didn't work out, would you mind? Who cares about some jerk that's more worried about gender roles than you as a human being?0