Help pls! I don't know if I'm good enough for my boyfriend of 5 months. I feel like he might leave for someone prettier/smarter/skinnier :( he is the perfect guy- intelligent, funny, handsome, muscly
I'm 165cm, 60kg and on my weight loss journey at the moment which is shameful and embarrassing. I go to law school, but I try spend as much time with him as I can. We cook different cuisines together, play heaps of video games, watch ufc, movies, cycling etc. he said he thinks I'm pretty which is probably untrue, And that I've got a good sense of humour. But he's got lots of pretty female friends so should I just leave him because he's gonna dump me one day anyway?
So the problem here is that I'm not that pretty at all and plus I'm fat at the moment even though I'm trying to lose weight :(
Most Helpful Guy
Has he shown any sign of wanting to leave you? Probably not. You should think more highly of yourself. You're just as good as any other girl. Now focus on him and what you can do to make him happy. Forget about your insecurities. Plus believe in yourself! It'll go a long way.
Good luck :)1
Most Helpful Girl
He knew exactly what you looked like when he decided to date you. Why are you insecure now? Also, it is true with what everyone else is saying, you do not want to be insecure that is very unattractive. And if you become that needy, always needing validation, not taking his compliments, etc. then that will be what makes him run out the door. Remember, he knew what you looked like when he committed to you, he likes it! Also, it is personalities and friendship that bonds each other stronger than anything else. There is always someone more attractive but do they all get along and understand each other better, nope. That is the hard thing to find.0