If you're a guy and you only want to date a girl you find attractive, then you're shallow or unrealistic. If you date a girl you find average then you're a jerk.
Most Helpful Girl
i don't think that's true at all. i think it's silly of anyone to date someone they don't find attractive...0
Most Helpful Guy
I think it's expected you would only date someone you found attractive. The reason you found them attractive might make you shallow and expecting to date a highly attractive person if you are not yourself similarly attractive would make you unrealistic.
If you date a girl you don't find attractive just for sex and she doesn't know and consent to the arrangement then you are a jerk.
Not seeing any contradiction.0