I have never dreamed of having a family and having the white picket fence house. I dreamed of having a husband, but never children. I honestly don't want to be a mother and I'm everything else but a mother. I know what I want and what I'm cut out for, but guys shy away or deem me as immature because I don't plan on having children to carry out my legacy. I feel like I have no chance of having a husband and a wedding because of my adamant choice of no children. Of course I want to have a husband or just a long term boyfriend, but I feel like my dating choices are narrowed down to 0.
I promise there are guys out there who don't want kids! My boyfriend and I are in the same situation. We've gotten to the point in our relationship where we know this is going to be long-term, but we agree that we don't ever want kids. They're maybe a little harder to find, but they do exist.
The only advice I can give to you is to keep going and to maybe look to different circles for dating. Not everyone wants kids, but it's a big part of life so long-term that might not work for some people.
I'm not going to have children but I do want to get married not only do I not want kids but I've got mental disorders that can be passed on genetically I'm functional but I'm not the right person to bring a new soul into this world
You are just 18 and probably will get mature as with time and age. What you are thinking now might be different then when you will be 25. So as for now go date guys you are attacted you, have fun and live your life like all those beautiful girls and forget about this having children theory at this current age. You will get the answer itself once you get older by both age and maturity wise. :) Good luck
There are many men who want children and many that don't! You just have to bring it up early in regards of knowing you're not wasting not your time- but not freak them out? I usually just ask in the early stages of dating just out of curiosity, I don't think its a question that people get freaked out for lately.