Why, why, why do you insist on doing this? Because you know it drives us absolutely bonkers. Is it because the thrill of the chase is gone? You got what you wanted and so you just want to be left alone?
Most Helpful Guy
Dunno about other guys, but I can say that I've never done that. I've never understood "the thrill of the chase" either.
The chase is the worst part. If I really got off on chasing shit, I would never order fast food. I'd just be out running after bunnies to snare. Or hunting deer with a knife or something. Na. The best part is eating.
*shrug* I don't know. Maybe there's some other circumstance that you're not taking into account, because you're jumping to conclusions about it being all about "he got sex, now he no longer needs". Maybe you did something freaky. Or maybe you implied something like "Okay, now you should marry me." Or something. Or maybe the dude is just busy.
Point being, it might not necessarily be simply because he got laid. Then, presumably, if a chick slept with you once, chances are she will again--so unless you've got like 3 other chicks on the side, ready and waiting, then it's more efficient to continue to invest in the chick who already fucked you.
Correlation doesn't necessarily mean causation, ya know.0
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Most Helpful Girl
You gave them what they wanted, and now they're done. There is nothing left for them to gain except what you already gave them. It was a wam, bam thank you ma'am, sayanora lady, I'm out. No need to further question.2