Why, why, why do you insist on doing this? Because you know it drives us absolutely bonkers. Is it because the thrill of the chase is gone? You got what you wanted and so you just want to be left alone?
don't know what to think now, but at least he is speaking to me again, I guess. Should I use subtelty like you said, or just not bring it up at all?
Dunno about other guys, but I can say that I've never done that. I've never understood "the thrill of the chase" either.
The chase is the worst part. If I really got off on chasing shit, I would never order fast food. I'd just be out running after bunnies to snare. Or hunting deer with a knife or something. Na. The best part is eating.
*shrug* I don't know. Maybe there's some other circumstance that you're not taking into account, because you're jumping to conclusions about it being all about "he got sex, now he no longer needs". Maybe you did something freaky. Or maybe you implied something like "Okay, now you should marry me." Or something. Or maybe the dude is just busy.
Point being, it might not necessarily be simply because he got laid. Then, presumably, if a chick slept with you once, chances are she will again--so unless you've got like 3 other chicks on the side, ready and waiting, then it's more efficient to continue to invest in the chick who already fucked you.
Correlation doesn't necessarily mean causation, ya know.
You gave them what they wanted, and now they're done. There is nothing left for them to gain except what you already gave them. It was a wam, bam thank you ma'am, sayanora lady, I'm out. No need to further question.
First off sorry if this happened to you. Second of all, not all guys are like this. But you answered it already, for this guy in particular, the thrill for him was in the chase, the hunt. U were his trophy. He sounds like a jerk, and if thats what he did, he is one. U can't allow guys that do this to leave U jaded to the point where U think we all are like that. If this keeps happening to U, then maybe U need to re-evaluate the kinds of men U are attracting or u are attracted to. "Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me..."
no because we want to see what your pussy feels like. after we've explored that cavern there's no reason for us to stick around because there's other girls out there who we haven't probed yet... indulging in some new pussy for the first time is hard to compete with
Look, men and women are created differently. A lot of men don't have the emotional attachment or connection that women have. This is the reason why some men will do anything to have sex and sever ties. My recommendation is to wait. I know sex drive varies from person to person, but it sounds like you're a "stereotypical" woman that can wait a looong time for sex. That's actually a good thing. Save yourself for the man that deserves you. If a man keeps hounding you or begging you for for sex, THAT'S A VERY BAD SIGN! A real man will understand and appreciate you wanting to wait.