I'm confusin myself, lol. Sooo I've posted about how crazy I am over this guy before.. We've been hooking up every few weeks since New Year's Eve. We live an hour apart at diff colleges... Basically I caught feelings, very strong feelings... To the point of obsession, I swear. He's all I thought about and I wanted him to let me love him SO badly. he doesn't want anything from any girl. He's not looking for commitment right now, but we agreed on exclusive sex; yet, he lied to me; I got my feelings hurt; blahblah.. Then a week & a half ago we had sex after not talking for a month. It was one of the best times we had... It really was, and a few days after I was feelin 100% for him again (daydreams, listening to love songs, thinking about him 24/7 and until I could see him again... Up until this morning.. Just poof. I feel nothing for him. I've been looking at his pictures today trying to feel something (idk why) but I don't. I honestly don't care if I ever see him again. And a day ago I was crying over him. I have never felt so DE-attached from him since the night we met for the second time.
I guess im asking... Does this mean I've really moved on? Does it happen that fast? I had plans to see him this weekend but now that I feel this new LACK of feeling for him... I don't want to really. I don't want to reawaken it. Or am I fooling myself since I can't have him the way I want?
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Stay away he's not looking for anything serious, and you are lucky you just dropped your feelings like that for him. Keep it up and you will be back to square one heart broken, and lonely. Move on, and find someone who will adore you. You deserve that.1