Why do people want to Be in a relationship, when there are so many different interesting people out there? Why tie yourself down when their are Plenty of oppertunities? I just don't get it, I don't understand why one would want an exclusive relationship, especially when you're still young. So what gives?
Most Helpful Guy
I suppose to each their own - Some want to be single, some want an open relationship and some want a monogamous relationship - I reckon just follow your heart but if you are in relationship tell the other person what you are thinking and why you are thinking it. For me I would think differently as in I feel there is nothing better than meeting right person and settling down but that is just my personal bias.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'm poly/non-monogamous myself, but when you get to be my age, you'll start to realize that you'll want or even need someone to come home to. I was lucky in finding a man who was open to letting me be myself. So long as he is the one I come home, and I am always safe and clean, he is ok with me having some fun on the side.
But young as you are, don't tie yourself down. Go see the world while you still can, while there is still beauty left in it.1