I've been dating a guy for about 6 weeks. I haven't had sex with him, so he asked me why I was holding out on sleeping with him. I told him that I don't have sex with anyone who I'm not in a relationship with. He then said he doesn't want a relationship right now because he might be moving to another state within the next few months, but he said that he really likes me.
I thought he'd want to stop hanging out with me after I said that, but since then he's still invited me to hang out with him. Why would he want to keep hanging out with me if he doesn't want a relationship with me and I won't have sex with him?
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I could be wrong, but that whole "I don't want a relationship" line should be a red flag. That line is really overused when guys just want to have sex with no strings attached. Again, I could be wrong here but from what I've heard from other people that's what usually happens. I think he's still hanging out with u in hopes that u change ur mind about not sleeping with him. I'd be careful with him. Plus six weeks is just a month and change. If u feel like ur not ready then he shouldn't keep pushing it.0