i used to only date guys around my age, but then i started talking to a 40 year old man for a little while (long story of how it happened) and i didn't even think about him in that way at first but the more we talked, the more attractive he became. he was really interesting to talk to and sexually attractive as well. i used to think this kind of age gap is unusual but now im more into older men. we dont talk anymore, but now i find older men more attractive then guys my age. anyone else?
It's become a much more common thing. Iam not totally sure why but I can give you a few pointers. Younger women have become much more mature younger. They like to be taken seriously. They are well educated and enjoy a good debate and conversation. Also young women are much more confident sexually are able to enjoy sex in a way other generations of women have not been able to previously. Some say they find guys of their own age a little immature I've found that these women are confident enough to approach you and engage you in intellectual conversation with some wonderful opinions. Then also not backwards in letting you know they would enjoy your company again
I entertained the idea when I was younger, but found I was much more sexually attracted to and find it easier to get along with guys my own age. Now, I still get along with guys my own age best, but damn those college boys still stay looking good!
It's quite common for girls to go through this phase. It's a mix of him having life-experience, being able to take the lead, feeling more secure with an older man.
In the end though 20 years is just too much of a difference for any working relationship until you both are like 40 and 60. The better difference for guys and girls is around 5 years with the guy being older.
I find that so weird. I'm only 22 and I'm already becoming apprehensive about 18 year old girls so I just find a dude in his 30s and up hitting on 18 and 19 year old girls to be the biggest creeps ever.
I get you there. I am 17, so to be with anyone older than me is perfectly legal over here! But yes I have been with guys who are my age, but found them too immature and in a way it gets boring. But I am currently dating a 27 year old. Not quite 40 but a lot of the guys I have been with have been around that age.