Most Helpful Guy
It's true that making that initial move is hard, and a lot of guys will tell you, "I would love it if the girl admitted her feelings for me first!" But in reality... This is not true...
Personally, if a girl admitted her feelings for me, at first I would be flattered, and yes I will absolutely appreciate the fact that she had the courage to do that. But I strongly prefer to be the one to admit my feelings for a girl because it makes me feel masculine. I want to be the one who moves things forward. I want to be the one who asks for the number, drive her to our date, pay for our food, etc. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for gender equality. But when it comes to dating, I want to feel like the masculine man that can take care of a girl.
If you really want to initiate first, you probably can. Guys are not that picky about it. If a girl did it to me, it wouldn't be a big deal, I would appreciate it. I just PREFER to do it first. :) Good luck!~0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm not a guy but I think everyone can appreciate being told that they're liked and being told first just takes the pressure off of them.0