It feels like pulling teeth...
when you're not getting no responses at all you either have conversations that consist of vague responses, one word answers, topics that lead nowhere, nonsense/gibberish, and/or absolutely apathy.
Why do these people suck so much? ... maybe the reason why relationships go nowhere is because of the lack of effort. Maybe the reason people are using these sites is because they lack the social graces or they are just straight up assholes. I feel like I should put a lot of effort into going to new places and trying new things because dating sites fucking suck.
And don't even get me started on miscommunication/misinterpretation... Make the slightest error and you're completely written off.
Sorry for the rant, how do you guys/girls feel about dating sites?
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Im w/ you. The girls who just put in 1-word responses are so... bleh. It's like, are they too dimwitted to realize why they are single? And yes, you are right, last night I had a slight misunderstanding in my opening line and the lady wrote back like 3 paragraphs writing me off lol...
Anyway, as for online dating in general - it sucks. I've been doing it on/off for 2 years. Have met around a dozen girls, and all the sane/stable ones did not want to see me again (maybe that's my fault lol...). The emotionally unstable/immature ones or socially awkward ones did want to see me again. Only one led to anything significant and we dated for almost 5 months w/o any sex (again, see emotionally immature).
There are great people out there on dating sites. They're just - ironically - hard to find, or, also ironically, have high fucking standards.1