I've never dated anyone in high school and I'm fairly certain I won't since this year is almost over. I was wondering if there were any other people like me out there.
I feel like I haven't put myself out there enough in high school and it took me a long time to finally be comfortable with opening up around others.
Now that I'm older I feel a lot more comfortable meeting new people than before so I was wondering if it's easier to date in college.
If you have been in a relationship in high school as well as college, how are they different?
Most Helpful Guy
Very VERY stressful. College work ain't no joke.. so unless you plan on living with or near the person, its pretty slim...
with every factor, its easier to split you apart... timetables... pathways to class... free time... work schedules (if you have it) etc
thats why i encourage dating in high school.
i won't lie to you... if you are looking for something "serious" and only just starting and in college... you better hope you have your four-leafed clover... you will need it.
The time has passed, just focus on studies and party when you can... think about dating in junior year when you have the hang of it and have met enough people.
who knows... it might be sooner.1
Most Helpful Girl
I am currently a freshman in college, and I haven't found anyone worth a relationship yet. One thing that will surprise you about college is that guys haven't really matured much. Just keep an open mind and focus on your studies. A good guy will come along when the timing is right!2