I think a lot of guys like a lovely girl. They are the one that you can love not lust. It seems like guys always attracted to a lovely lady not in a sexual way. How do I become a woman like that who can be likeable by every guys?
I find a girl that I will share the MOST intense lust and live for is a girl who isn't needy desperate but instead cares , and knows how to push my soft spots such as glaring into my eyes with a gentle smile , learning my hobbies interests and secrets. Like noticing little things like hey I noticed you weight lift but your hands are real hard and you got hard skin and has bought my some weight lifting gloves or something lol. I like a girl who knows what she wants , shows some keen interests. Understands my ambitions and respects them. That is when I can be proud to say that girl is mine and all the others can't compare lol
Well actually, first let me say you will not get EVERY guy to fall for you. Every guy has his own unique tastes. BUT:
1 Dress so that YOU feel confident and pretty. Where your hair how you like it and dress how you think you look pretty because it will make you carry yourself in a confident way.
2 know what it is that makes YOU special. If you don't know why you are special and any guy would be lucky to have you, get out a piece of paper and write down all the compliments you remember getting recently (add to it as you get new ones). In or elder for someone to give you a comoliment, they must feel it strongly, and the general rule is that for each 1 person to give you the comoliment, 4 other people have noticed that quality without telling you. Do not ever dismiss a compliment. People don't tell you them to "make you feel better." It's what people really do like about you.
3. Be your normal imperfect self. Be genuinely you.
4. Let go of your past hurts and forgive what has happened to you. Because 1) no man can nor should he have to heal what others have done to you. Face your past and forgive what has happened on your own. Even if a man wanted to, he can't go back and undo what has happened. 2) if you don't you will have a hard time letting a man get truly close to you and come off as guarded, like he can't get close to you
5. Let him know when he makes you happy or proud. Show him with your actions more than words. He has to know he can make you happy. And make him feel you accept him for him and not like you want to change him.
Listen I am a virgin, and honestly that is what I am looking for is just a lovable woman. Caring, honest, respectful, and just being nice in general is all I care for. It's hard, because some woman done me wrong by being loveable, then found out they were the complete opposite after.
U R what U R. Bright or dim, nice or not. You CAN become a better person, I did. I was a horrible kid but as I grew older, I saw sense and I now can look back and see just how many peeps I helped with their life. Don't know how much time I got left but my account with life is in the black, sound and very acceptible to me. Glad I learned.
Just be yourself hun, i'm sure u are perfect and lovely as you are. You want someone to fall for YOU, because you are a unique person and it's best to stay true to yourself. If you feel like you are not kind enough, then maybe you could try to be more helpful. Like smile to strangers on the street, give your friends and family hugs and advice, help someone if they need it, could be a stranger or a friend too. Being polite doesn't hurt either, but otherwise don't try to change yourself, guys won't fall for a fake version of you, they will fall for YOU, and you only.