One you've been seeing for a while (9 months plus), they're great they make you laugh, you can be yourself, great sex, talk daily, they're attractive.
and then when things seem perfect and things are great you start seeing someone else as well as the other person - why?
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After 9 months I'm not sure. I can see in the beginning if you like 2 people and not sure who you like more, but after 9 months I would think you're going steady by that point. I assume this is someone you're dating? If so, he obviously doesn't consider you serious enough or exclusive. Maybe he likes someone else more and sees you more as a friend or friend with benefits? Communication is key. If this is happening to you then ask him to make a choice, you only or it's over.0