Question aside from the physical aspect? I know many would say confidence but explain a good confidence move a guy made that you found attractive being this guy not the most attractive, let's say he's average..
Thanks everyone for your inputs I'm gonna make a list actually since I'm getting a ton of answers I thought I could make a list now
Well, not all women like super built-up guys... Some just like normal (i. e. healthy weight), fit guys (fit as in, not a couch potato). But not like a Mr Universe bodybuilder. As for personality traits... It depends. Some girls like shy guys, others like outgoing, louder guys. For me, I just have to get along with him. It's true that sometimes personality can make us grow to like a certain face more than we did before..
Being good at something. What it is doesn't matter, really. If you master something, that's a huge turn on. Doesn't matter if it's being a good basketball player, or helicopter mechanic, or guitarist. Just seeing that a guy has skills in one area or another really improves his chances.
Humor is a big one. They've got to be able to make me laugh. Also intelligence. The guy I currently like is super smart, he teaches me things all the time, and I love learning so that's great. And the most important by far is kindness. When I see a guy being kind to someone else - doesn't have to be me - he jumps up multiple levels in my book.
dimples, dark thick hair, brown eyes, soft hands, down to earth, layed back, blank facial expressions.. lol love tht. Umm creative, soft personality (nice guys) occasionally sarcastic... thats about it.
Love muscles. But aside from the physical stuff, he's gotta be able to make me laugh (but I laugh at everything so that's not that hard lol), kind, smart, friendly, have similar interests and I don't know just be a normal person lol
Intellect, a good sense of humour, someone who doesn't try to mould himself according to ever-changing popular opinions, knows how to hold his ground, open-minded, respects his SO's differences, respects himself as much as he respects others... The physicality doesn't really matter much. Its what he is on the inside that counts.
nice, wants to be friends with my friends, outgoing, fun likes to go out but also wants to stay in with me every once in a while, cute, funny, good taste in music, likes to spend time together but also likes to spend a good amount of time with your own friends or alone
Honestly, most of the girls I know are into funny guys. If you can make her smile and laugh, you're on the right track. Personally I love guys who have adorable personalities. And them being nerdy is also a plus. ;D But that's just me. Girls love guys who they feel they can trust and be themselves around. Hope this helps
I don't like muscles or six packs. I find guys that are sweet and always smile the best. Also, shy and sensitive. I love guys that love music and or artistic. I like guys with lots of hair that is healthy. Oh boy i could list so many things but yeah i'll stop theree.
Being cool with me being an average chick and not always angling to land a hot chick without working on his own looks...
Actually I prefer thin guys to muscular guys
Mutual trust- I want to be able to be vulnerable with him and feel good about it because he's compassionate and supportive, and for him to trust me enough to do + feel the same