I'd like to understand how women feel after they've been picked up and been intimate (sex) within the first date. For example, you go out dancing and end up back at his place and stay the night. Or you are picked upon the street, he swoons you over time that day and it ends in sex.
Do you feel ok about it all... like that is what I was there for and was hoping for?
Do you fell used?
Do you feel bad... like you've come down from the high and now you feel like crap?
- Its what I was hoping for14% (1)
- Feel used or deceived14% (1)
- Feel bad... like crap43% (3)
- Other29% (2)
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It depends on how 'the pick up' went. If the guy indeed deceived me and sort of talked me into things i actually didn't want, then i feel like shit the next day and feel used. Sometimes, as a girl, i like to have casual sex too. So if i find a cool guy with who i connect and he's nice and the sex is good, and it felt like it was equal, i don't feel like shit.1