There is a boy at econ class. I realized that we have same hobbies, same view of life. He is Nordic, a fan of kult horror films and Scandinavian myth. I stalked him at facebook for a long time. GOD we have same music tastes! Pearl Jam, Devil's Anvil, Fleetwood Mac. He is also obsessed with wolves and he is also playing Dota. I thought we are the same person. I decided to take the first step, we met. I called him home in the evening to play Dota.
Next day, I sat near him. I started to flirt even I couldnt get response. Then, he asked me if "my tall beautifull girl friend is single or not." I was dissapointed. Then I realized that he was hanging out with me to meet with her. Yes I admit, she is taller. And I read a question here, majority of guys said "yes attractiveness is important." I mean, really? I thought personality, soul must me more important than how long legs I have? isn't it superficial?
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Attractiveness is important to everyone... but not everyone has the same desires or standards.
For example, I *specifically* prefer petite girls, so I'd have no problem with your height at all. My buddy specifically likes "Amazon" women - 6 foot tall or taller and thick/curvy is his type. The point being that every guy is different, but it's a good idea to figure out if there is some mutual attraction before you get too attached to someone. Girls are actually more likely than guys to "forgive" guys who don't meet their desired physical characteristics... but only IF the guy has a personality that really does it for her, and even then, it usually takes some time.0
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