I place a lot of trust into my girlfriend, but I get jealous very easily. 4 months into our relationship this guy came into the picture. A guy that she has been friends with for years, but she never mentioned him before. For the past 4 months I hear about him from her almost every time we hang out, I never see them texting personally but I know they text on a daily basis. She never gets texts from him when we are hanging out though. He has asked her to go up to a college for a party to drink and stay the night there, a college he doesn't attend. She declinded because she said I wouldn't like that but she facetimes him, and hangs out with him often. He has visited her at work and he lives about an hour and a half away. She doesn't face time me. Should I be worried or are my worries for not?
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You definitely have every reason to be worried. I mean you said that she has been friends with him for years but she never mentioned that to you? I mean that's a little strange and now this guy comes into the picture and to me it really seems like he is asking too much of her time as a friend and that is clearly not a good sign at all and even your girlfriend's behavior is not very appropriate.
I mean even though her guy friend seems to be asking much of her time, she doesn't really seem uncomfortable or she doesn't seem to be having any problems with it, yes she did decline him once, but that is only one time. However most of the times she seems to be very comfortable and the fact that she face times him more than she face times you is not at all a good sign. This I would say can be seen as a red flag.
By the way your girlfriend and her guy friend are interacting, it looks to me like her guy friend sees her more than just friends and also the signs indicate the same. I am not saying that this has to be true, but I am just putting forward a possibility.0