Okay I need help I have feelings for my cousin we haven't acted it on it well we've cuddled and kissed and just fooled around and I know it's wrong but it's something about him and I want him and I think he feels the same way but I don't know I'm scared cause it truly hurts and I don't want to have this feelings and we were not close until last summer we going really close and that's when it started and I don't know what to do we live in different states but we visit all the time and I would break it off but that would make me lose contact with him cause I couldn't stand seeing him with someone else I haven't told him how I feel cause it's wrong and I'm just scared it happened to my cousin (his sister) she had feelings for her cousin but her parents found out and now they don't talk anymore and I don't want that it would hurt to much but right now it hurts so bad I cry cause I'm not with him and he's in a different school so what if he's with other girls the thought hurts and I can't take it I need advice what should I do please help
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take a breath! That read like one big, long sentence!
I don't think it is messed up for cousins to like each other. It isn't super uncommon, either. Sit with him, and talk. You've already cuddled, kissed, and fooled around. So talk. Ask each other how you each actually feel. Ask if it's just because of convenience (the familiarity family brings) of it you actually are interested in each other. Ask if it's just fooling around for the sake of fun and experimenting with someone you can trust, of it there is something more.
If you both decide you want it to be a real connection, then you understand how you each feel, and you make it a long distance relationship until you can see each other.
When you have time to be together, be proper around family, and don't give people room to be suspicious of the time you spend together. And when you're both over 18, if you want to keep it going, and you tell your family, and they don't understand, then you can move on, without worrying about your parents keeping you away. You'll be adults then, and they won't have a say.0
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