I can't get a girlfriend to save my life. I get a girls number and she either blows me off or just randomly stops texting me. I don't know what to do anymore. I've tried online dating. Doesn't work. I've tried going to bars and clubs. Doesn't work. It just seems I'm not good enough. I'm really starting to think maybe I'm not meant to have anyone special. I've never had a girlfriend before and all I get is rejection. So should I give up? I honestly think I should.
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You seem kind of desperate and most girls pick up on it. I know I do and trust me, nothing is more off-putting than a guy trying too hard and being needy. I know most guys probably don't realize it but it makes us lose interest in them even if they're good looking. So my advice would be to stop searching and just let it happen naturally. Go out with friends, go to the gym, join clubs, do any kind of activity that forces you to go out and meet new people. Get busy and sooner or later you're bound to meet someone with similar interests. It usually happens when you least expect it and when do don't expect something, you don't come across as desperate. So instead of asking out random girls (and lets' face it, that creates expectations) focus on yourself and the one you're looking for will hopefully come around.0