My guy is home for uni holidays.
I haven't heard from him much lately and he has been a bit distant.
I stayed at his the last 2 nights but he wants the next 2 to go out with the guys.
He has been feeling sad recently so I hope going out with his friends cheers him up because he hasn't seen them for ages.
I'm just sad that he is sad, worried that it's something to do with me and sad because i want him to be happy when he is with me. I don't know how to cheer him up.
He told me he was sad, he says he doesn't know why. He added x's on his message still. I feel like he wouldn't have shared this with me if it was because of me as he isn't a big sharer.
How can i cheer him up?
Most Helpful Guy
There's not much you can do. Maybe just do things that seem like fun. I think it's the kind of thing that if you try too hard it still won't work but come across as trying too hard.
Maybe just ask him how school is going. Or how things are going in general. But if he's depressed, it might be general and not about any specific thing. And of course it might not be depression at all, but something else entirely. It might even be something like he's burnt out from school and just kind of worn down.0
Most Helpful Girl
Hopefully he'll be happy again once he sees his friends. It's hard to cheer someone up when you don't know why they're sad. All you can do right now is be there for him and let him know that you're all ears if he wants to talk.0