So i have a friends circle of 5 friends including me, we go to this small resturant often and my friends friend works there, she is 19 and very pretty and cute easily an 8 or 8.5+ with makeup and nice clothes, she had a thing for me so i chatted her up online and the conversastion was flowing smoothly and i even expressed my desire to get to know her more and better, she seemed happy about it, two days later she stopped responding, after a little over a week ( yesterday) i told her to forget what i told her and that iam not interested anymore and i want her to be friends with my friends and not make it awkward... she was like "what? but why? what is it that i did i ont understand why you would say something like that?" i reassured her that its all good but iam not interested anymore and i want things to go back to normal so we had a normal converstaion.
The thing is i truly like her she is decent, hot, pretty and cute but the thing is... my friend who has been her friend for over a year has a huge crush on her and he confessed to a third friend that he's afraid i will take her from him cause i can easily do it... now she is not hoe thats for sure but i dont wanna lose a friend , especially a nice one so i decided to take a hit for the team, even though she sounded pretty happy to continue from where we stopped...
Most Helpful Girl
Tricky situation. I understand wanting to step back because of your friend. But why didn't he step up first? Especially when he knew that you were interested too. He should've told you right then and there that he was crushing on her.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well it was nice of u.. buut.. if u guys had somthing u could do it... plus its first come first serve if he didn't act on it befor thats his fault..
Bros befor hoes is like if i hav a girlfriend.. n she cheats on me with my friend... im not gunna fight my friend over it... becuase she's a hoe n she cheated on me... id still b friends wit that guy n well joke about it... but she's looked down on by bouth of us cuz she betrayed me.. u get it? This ofcourse if its a child hood friend if i jst met the guy.. theyre bouth getting beat up.0