If he's not accepting what you're saying and not realizing that he's not treating you like a girlfriend then what option do you really have? I would tell him if he doesn't clean up his act then I'm leaving, however keep in mind you can't change someone who doesn't want to.
Honestly, I think you should realize that in reality, he doesn't love you all that much if he orders you around and completely disregards any requests you make that he change his behaviour a bit, or stop doing any specific things so much.
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