So this guy recently asked for my number online. He is a local and we talked for 4-5 days so far. He asked for my number as " Can I please have your number so we can txt?" I think a friend of his wrote that for him because the way it was spelt was different than he normally typed. Anyways I gave him my number. He text me that same night. We sent 1 text back and forth. Then he ended the conversation saying " I'm being bland. I'm pretty tired. Have a great night I'm crashing. " I replied to his text this morning saying have a nice Tuesday. Haven't heard from him all day. What gives? Is he playing around? He stated he is only looking for "new friends". I'm keep going it strictly platonic. He says he's very introverted but goes out sometimes. Is this how guys work? I'm just wondering because after meeting 4 guys from online I really don't like meeting them this way. This may be the last guy I try to understand from online. It's too much work and hassle. I hope I didn't do anything wrong for him to have this behavior. Anyways what gives? Is this guy just weird or does he think he's playing me?
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I think if you are having trouble with online dating, it might be that you are investing too much too early. My general rule was that the guy doesn't even exist in my world until we met up at least once. And a meet up only if the guy had up to that point shown potential to me (I did usually try to meet quickly though. Both people have a clearer idea after the first date).0
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