I've heard this stated in a book and thought it was a novel pespective. What do you think?
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I said yes.. Although I dont understand in what context you mean the question. I just want to say that I have been thinking about this a lot recently (past few days).
Technically, it is the man who chooses a woman, becuase he sees an attractive woman, he courts her and AFTER a while - if she then likes him, she chooses him... But technically, she didn't really choose him. HE CHOSE HER because he went after her! Now, if it was the opposite that a woman went after a guy she liked and then they dated, she chose him (!)... Sometimes, they both like each other instantly and attract one another then they CHOOSE each other... but if one has to court the other to then get a yes, the one who made the first move is the one who made the choosing.
Having this thought process then made me realize, that I never chose my partners, they choose me. Now, after my last relationship, I am no longer going to be chosen, I am going to CHOOSE.
Hope that helps ;) :)1