Which would you rather date?

Date someone who has an awesome personality (funny, kind, etc) but isn't very sexually attractive to you?
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Date someone who is drop dead gorgeous but has no personality what so ever?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Single.

    I'd never want to be with a girl who didn't find me sexually attractive I'd feel so shitty if that happened so I don't see it being a good thing on my part if I dated a girl I didn't find sexually attractive. She'd probably also feel awful.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Not to sound shallow, but if I'm not attracted to the person at all, that's not really fair to him because I'd never be satisfied. I think personality and chemistry can build. Just the same as looks can fade.

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What Guys Said 17

  • In the first case, there is a threshold. If a girl is fat, it isn't going to happen, no matter her personality.

    The characteristic you are missing is how the other person is in bed. A great looking girl with a cardboard personality who is great in bed is a winner, whereas a great person to talk to may be cardboard in bed, or maybe not.

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  • I would date a woman who's a mixture of both perfect personalities & have some sexual attractive looks only just for her to feel like she's a princess. However it's going to take some time for me & her to get through these beginning stages, because I've never dated anyone before in my life.

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  • Personality hands down, Looks fade, personality usually gets better with time.

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  • The first one, what's the point in being with someone if they are just an empty shell so to speak?

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  • If you're asking if looks matter, it doesn't! Not at all. If looks mattered then Kim K and J Lo would still be with their first husbands. Get me average girl that can handle her whisky, fight by my side, and thinks her ass if a proper resting place for my hand.

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  • i would date who's personality is finny kind, mature, because i'll be sexually attracted to those i dont need any physical looks for that.

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  • I wouldn't be able to date either long term. I need to be physically attracted to her and also I need to be able to stand being around her.
    Chances are I'd date the 2nd before the first.
    The first would be a friend.

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  • take the trophy wife hands down for a bit. just to make a point to my friends... they ain't shit!

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  • No personality is a dead mend. , You must have a meeting of minds before the bodies can work together.

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  • I can't waste my time on someone with no personality.

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  • The hot one

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  • Definitely the 1st one

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  • Most definitely the former. If someone has no personality then I'd rather not talk them at all.

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  • I would get the two to fuse to create a girl who was pretty and fun but that's impossible I guess?

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  • This question is impossible.

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  • Even if a woman doesn't look very sexually attractive at first, if she has a great personality, she will become more sexually attractive later on, just because of the chemistry that would be built.

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  • Personality rules!

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What Girls Said 13

  • Neither, because both are important. A guys appearance attracts me, but it's his personality that i fall in love with. His personality determines if i continue to date him of not , but i also need to be physically attracted to him before I'd date him. I am sure most wouldn't date someone they found unattractive

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  • Assuming "isn't very sexually attractive" means he isn't unhygienic but just doesn't physically look like an Adonis, I would go for personality. I would much rather spend hours talking about anything then spend hours sitting there with my mouth shut because I know there is no chance of conversation

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  • Neither. I am all about personality, but if I am just not attracted to them, then it's just not going to work out.

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  • The one with a good personality, assuming he's not gross. A great personality can make a "meh" looking guy attractive.

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  • I'd rather date someone who has an awesome personality

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  • The one with the personality for sure. I don't want to just stare at the guy I need someone who can engage in a conversation lol

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  • neither. but how much money do they make?

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  • yup, first option.

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  • Personally I like it when a guy can be really nice, funny and smart! To me looks are just a bonus lol

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  • Both are necessary even if one is more important than the other.

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  • Neither

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  • Awesome personality, if they aren't sexually attracted it's hard for them to resist temptation. So bjs I guess it's bjs for hours then. J/k, people's perceptions can change overtime.

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  • personality, because if you are attracted to their personality their attractiveness becomes 100% stronger

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