I'd never want to be with a girl who didn't find me sexually attractive I'd feel so shitty if that happened so I don't see it being a good thing on my part if I dated a girl I didn't find sexually attractive. She'd probably also feel awful.
Not to sound shallow, but if I'm not attracted to the person at all, that's not really fair to him because I'd never be satisfied. I think personality and chemistry can build. Just the same as looks can fade.
I would date a woman who's a mixture of both perfect personalities & have some sexual attractive looks only just for her to feel like she's a princess. However it's going to take some time for me & her to get through these beginning stages, because I've never dated anyone before in my life.
In the first case, there is a threshold. If a girl is fat, it isn't going to happen, no matter her personality.
The characteristic you are missing is how the other person is in bed. A great looking girl with a cardboard personality who is great in bed is a winner, whereas a great person to talk to may be cardboard in bed, or maybe not.
If you're asking if looks matter, it doesn't! Not at all. If looks mattered then Kim K and J Lo would still be with their first husbands. Get me average girl that can handle her whisky, fight by my side, and thinks her ass if a proper resting place for my hand.
I wouldn't be able to date either long term. I need to be physically attracted to her and also I need to be able to stand being around her. Chances are I'd date the 2nd before the first. The first would be a friend.
Neither, because both are important. A guys appearance attracts me, but it's his personality that i fall in love with. His personality determines if i continue to date him of not , but i also need to be physically attracted to him before I'd date him. I am sure most wouldn't date someone they found unattractive
Assuming "isn't very sexually attractive" means he isn't unhygienic but just doesn't physically look like an Adonis, I would go for personality. I would much rather spend hours talking about anything then spend hours sitting there with my mouth shut because I know there is no chance of conversation