So in the last 3-4 years I've had 4 different relationships, two of around 4 months and two that lasted a year. The longest I've been without a boyfriend is 3 months. Recently I broke up with the 4th boyfriend, as always because I start freaking out about not really being in love and I thought that it was the perfect moment to actually be single and start to know myself. But then again, 3 months later I met this amazing guy. And he really is perfect. But I'm freaking out now because we just said that we're exclusive and in a relationship (and I agreed, because when I'm with him I feel like everything is perfect) but actually, what about my plans about being single? I don't want to lose him over this, he really is awesome. But I also think I need to stop being in relationships all the time and it's the 5th time this happens. I don't want to tell him to slow down or that I'm freaking out because I don't want to lose him, and I'm fine with being in a relationship but I feel like I really shouldn't because it's probably going to end the same way as the others. What do I do?
I keep having new boyfriends, what do I do?
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We call that a self-fulfilling prophesy. You keep telling yourself that the relationship is going to fail. So, naturally you act as if though it has already failed... ironically, causing it to fail.
Be more positive, take it one day at a time. Let your boyfriend know that you are independent. Let him know that you need "me time" but will also make time for "us time."1
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