I just found out that the guy I'm dating recently asked his ex to hang out. She'd been wanting to hang out with him and they met for coffee and he told her they should hang out more often. ( I know this because I looked through his phone... I'm horrible I know but still...)
Is he trying to get back with her? What are the chances he JUST wants to be friends with her? They live closer together and I live further away from him so it makes me uncomfortable!
Most Helpful Guy
First stop looking in his phone, that's the most wrong thing to do.
But now that u know, don't be afraid. If u are and don't trust him on this, sorry for asking but why are u together then? In a relationship trust and loyalty should be one of the biggest things that should be provide.
I know how u feel he asked her, that's not a nice feeling to have, tho that its his ex.
I don't know what your gonna do its not my choice to make, but I will help you :)
- The trust -
Either u trust him that much that much that its only a friend thing, and u sit bag and relax your self. And u let him do his thing, and if u feel like there is something completely wrong. Then u confront him, and u ask him what is going on. U guys tell each other everything and u start with open your self and tell that u checked his phone. Then u go from there and talk this trough.
- The direct -
That you guys are that open with each other and you can just go ask him now. and figure this thing out.
I don't know if these help u or not. but one thing is for sure u should be wasting your time being nervous. You need to face this and be strong. Yeah u looked in his phone, and u guys should either trust each other that u can go do that, without anything happens (sadly not in this case). or that you trust each other that much not to look trough your phones.
This is only a period u guys need to figure out together or you will have to face and look into and beware of. Like I sed its not me who chose what to do, its your move. Am just trying to help :)0
Most Helpful Girl
Aaah, that is so awkward. I think you need to sleep with one eye open.0