When I first met him I was 64kg, now I'm 59kg and on my weight loss/toning up journey at the moment. My goal is 50kg (I am 165cm).
I am afraid that my boyfriend will leave me for taking so long to lose weight. He said I was beautiful when he first met me and I know he's into skinny, firm ass girls... But I don't have that at the moment.
We have things in common, he praises me all the time for my good sense of humour, etc.
just worried... Any ways to get him to stay while I lose the weight? Thanks!!
Most Helpful Guy
You're not fat, at that height you probably only need to get to 8 and a half stone so you're not far off. But anyway, I doubt he'll leave you as you are losing the weight and getting fitter aren't you? Most women would rather not do anything at all to lose weight and make all kinds of excuses not to, so the fact that you're not lazy/weak works in your favour.1
Most Helpful Girl
1. He dated you when you were fatter, why would he dump you know? I think it's wonderful how far you came already.
2. You're not really fat, sounds like a normal healthy weight to me. Maybe it would look even better if you went down to 55-57 kg and maintain there, but I think 50 is a bit too little. Don't get an eating disorder please :/
If you feel insecure, talk with your boyfriend about it. You're in a relationship, you should be able to talk about shit. He'll probably tell you you're beautiful as you are :)0