So there's this guy I'm friends with. He's such a gentleman. He opens doors for me, walks everywhere with me, picks me up and drives me home whenever there's a party. He seems worried about what I'll think of him so he watches what he says.
I find him attractive - dear god I do...
It's not all about his looks and how he treats me, though. He's a self made man. He looks after his parents, he works hard every day and yet makes time for his friends. he manages things well. He's also very respectful of people and I've seen him always stick up for people and especially women.
He has his faults... I'm not blind to them. He isn't perfect but I like the whole person.
The community we live in has a very obvious class system. There are those that are old rich and those that are new rich. The old rich don't tend to have much money left and yet the new rich really want to be more like the 'upper class' old rich. While these distinctions don't bother me as I'm part of the old rich that have lost their wealth, but they matter to him. He is new rich - and I can tell he hates it. Despite the fact that his family's fortune is clearly his own making. That's one hell of a man.
and yet he is in awe of my life. That I mix with the right crowd. He wants them to be his friends and for him to be accepted by them..
We haven't crossed any point past friends...
i think he knows I like him, I think he knows I've been giving him opportunities to ravish me. I think we have chemistry but that he doesn't want to fuck up his chance at being my friend and maybe getting my social circle. But he also seems so sweet. He seems to genuinely care about me... But I can't shake the feeling that he wants my contacts and that's all.
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I'm sure there's truth in your suspicions and eventually he may either drop you after you've served him as a ladder but also he may keep you AND your friends as if YOU are what made them attractive, not vice versa as you fear.
So what to do?
Create your golden parachute... what you end up of his IF he drops you later... and proceed as if there are no suspicions and get in love with this man in all ways possible.0
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