I've been dating this girl for a couple weeks and the fort week we hung out like every day she stayed at my house and I've stayed at hers we have hooked up. She told me she wanted to hangout less to focus on herself because she just got out of a 3 year relationship. She was still texting me everyday but if I tried to hangout she would make an excuse. We were still talking in the phone as well. I asked her what she thought and she said she's scared to hangout with me because she knows we are going to end up hooking up and she doesn't want that right now. I told her we should prolly stop texting so she can focus on herself until she's ready. She told me is getting emotionally attached and that is why she is acting like this. So should I just go no contact until she figured out what she wants or keep in touch a little bit or what?
She has feelings for me but doesn't want a relationship?
What Girls Said 1
I think you should cut contact.
Don't count on her to come running back though...
She knows what she is ready for, and by her actions she's proving it.
You deserve someone that's ready to be with you.
She clearly isn't.
She's only ready for the physical aspect and nothing more.
You both are not on the same page.
A couple days, weeks, and months will not even allow you both to be on the same page.
She really needs time.
A 3 year relationship is a long one to get over.0
What Guys Said 1
I think you are missing the subliminal messages.
I would wager she wants you to keep chasing her. Expecially if she is receptive to conversation and stayes she is refusing other men to you.
If you want to date her, keep nurturing that emotional connection, and act as a support to her emotional turmoil.0
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