I agree with @aficionado, Happiness doesn't come from outside yourself it comes from inside. Now liking all those things and having it make you feel loved is good, however, you should only need a man, not be in need of one. Being in need of a man will make you needy, which is an insecurity. So my suggestion would be to be a bit more self sufficient and join life skills with a man that is worthy of you. If you have ex's there's a reason. I think you took care of them more than yourself, just a guess. You are still dateble, but for long lasting relations, love yourself first then the one.
I know the feeling. I never stay single for long. While I do like being single, I can never seem to stay away from a relationship. Just don't go looking for one and one will find you. Works for me every time.
Ok, so what are you doing right now? I mean are you trying to meet guys or something? or are you just taking out time for yourself and getting over your previous relationship?
If you are taking out time, then it's good, you should first get over your previous relationship and then think about having another one, first you should be ready. However if you have crossed this stage and you are now looking for guys, then you should just keep trying, but don't try too hard and don't be desperate.
If someone dated you in the past and had a nice time with you then someone else would definitely date you. Because if your ex saw something in you that made him wanna date you then that means there are definitely other guys out there who would see the same thing in you. So yeah, just go out more and interact or you can approach any guy you are attracted to.
Hi @skinningk20 i just read one of your answers to one of the opinions here, and i should say that you don't have to change yourself because he didn't like you, if he didn't like you because you didn't like him rushing things then he is at fault, there are guys out there who wouldn't mind that so search for one instead of "fixing" yourself.