I met a girl in my college class who is a very nice girl. However, I think it's gonna be short lived. In a discussion in class she confesses she is bisexual. This will make me sound like the devil himself but I am not interested in dating or having sex with a bisexual woman. Did it once, got burned, don't trust them, so never again. We were supposed to go to a hockey game tonight but I told her I have other last minute plans that came up. In reality, I don't want to date her now. Am I a bad person for this preference?
Most Helpful Girl
No, you're not. I mean, I think your distrust is misplaced since obviously one person acting badly shouldn't define a group of people, but you're not a bad guy for not wanting to date someone because of previous bad experiences and hangups. That's a natural defensive reaction, even if it's not 100% rational. And we can decide to not date someone for literally any reason. No one has to date anyone, that's up to them and their own personal preferences.3
Most Helpful Guy
Of course not, because I would not date one either. I find that the majority of them are never sexually satisfied with the partners they date and will therefore resort to unfaithfulness. I'll pass.
Also, any guy that wants to date bisexual women most likely just wants threesomes...1