There's a girl im thinking of asking out and just want to know what you all think. She's a single mom living on welfare with one little boy.
Would you date a single mom guys? and girls are single moms worth it in your opinion?
Most Helpful Girl
Are single moms worth it?
Well.. I don't really like looking at it in that kind of context, which by default implies that a single mother is like damaged goods.
Though I personally would not be interested in dating single father, or father who's got some other kids from a previous relationship, I think it really depends on what each person wants. Personally, I'd only really be interested in putting my all into raising biological children of my own that I have with my husband in the future. Especially since I'm still relatively young in terms of finding someone to be with for life.. I'd prefer to not be with someone who already has the baggage of children with anyone else.
Likewise, I'd like the guy I'm with to have a good plan in terms of finances and saving, in which having however many children from past relationships would not be a good factor.
Doesn't have to portray them in a negative light, necessarily, as that can happen in many circumstances. However, I don't find the idea of having to deal with possibly troublesome exes/stepmothers to be a risk I'd be willing to deal with. Nor would I be overly interested in cooking, cleaning, and generally looking after this kid that is mind only by proxy with being with the father.0
Most Helpful Guy
I've dated three single moms and it never ended well. First you're always going to be #2 at best. Second dealing with her ex is a pain in the ass. And frankly, I cannot accept children who aren't mine. I want my own fresh start and firsts. Yes, all you haters even at my age. I view single mothers as damaged and used and I'll never seriously date one again. Fuck buddy, perhaps. But she will have the understand that's all we'll ever be. People can't say that I'm not honest.0