I've been talking to this online guy in my city. We mutually liked each other on an app. I messaged him first. After a few days he asked for my number. We been talking back to back for a week and a few days. Two days he used to message me saying " Hey you!" however recently he addressed me by my name. I didn't think he would know my name because of other girls he may be talking to. Anyways, I would ask him how his day is, sometimes he would ask me how his day is. I do most of the initiating. Only other time he did was replying and finishing our convo stating he fell asleep. Recently I've been feeling that I bore him. So I slowed down my texting a bit. Still tried to sound enthusiastic while talking to him though. Today I texted him saying " Have a nice Saturday" he just replies " Thank you. You as well." Did I bore him that much? If he was uninterested why would he keep replying? I like talking to him but his texting can be dry sometimes. He says he is an introvert but goes out sometimes. I dont want to seem like im too much. I already double texted him once. I don't want to bother him. We've never talked about meeting up yet. How can I see if he ever wants to meet? This is the first time I've tried the persistent way. Usually- if I feel a guy doesn't want to talk I never text them and then I never hear from them again. For this guy, I'm scared I won't hear from him again. What should I do?
- Double text him again. Who cares.22%(2)30%(3)Vote100%(1)
- Wait a few days to see if he will text you78%(7)70%(7)Vote0%(0)
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You're way too available. You need to play a little hard to get. Don't text him first. Let him be the one who reaches out to you. Don't invite him out. If he wants to hang out he'll say it. In the meantime, put your energy into someone who is excited to talk to you instead of someone who is lukewarm. You deserve someone that really wants to be with you!0