I walk to a girl, I say that she caught my eye and it would be nice if she would give me her number in order to meet for a coffer later in the week. is that too quick?
Most Helpful Girl
hopefully you are not just walking up to girls and asking for their number. i hate when guys do that. im like so you want my number just because im cute? then i file him in the "he just wants to fuck" category and say no
it is better if after you tell her she caught your eye, to start a conversation with her and get to know her a little bit. THEN0
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Most Helpful Guy
That is a good mentality yes, more thoughts:
You have to GIVE her a reason to trust you with her valuable time
So you either:
A) Spend the time hitting up a conversation to prove to her you are not a creepy weirdo and are fun and pleasant to be around.
Or if you really don't have time (as often is the case in a coffee shop for example:
B) What has worked in the past for me, especially when I move to a new city (and state even) for a job after Uni and didn't know anyone: introduce yourself and say something like "i know this might seem weird, but i noticed you and thought you were really attractive/beautiful/(similar genuine compliment)". And then ask if she would be alright meeting up later to get to know each other more, and THEN get her number. So you are giving her a reason and proving yourself very quickly that you aren't a weirdo and a great guy to be around.
Good luck mate!2