My ex gave me his new number. I do want to talk to him but I also want to be hard to get. Also how long do I keep putting off a date by saying I am busy? (He can't have me that easy... he needs to work a little to appreciate and want me more... just trust me on that.)
Most Helpful Guy
Mhmm I'd be careful with the hard-to-get game if I were you. It is much easier for guys to find alternatives nowadays with the advent of things like Tinder. The moment he senses he is not getting anywhere, he WILL move on. This is especially the case if he is attractive.
Case in point: a girl tried to play hard to get with me by scheduling a coffee date ONE MONTH in advance. Of course I forgot about it because... well... and now she is furious with me that I forgot. Of course this is all on her, and I have packed my bags because I'm not going to put with drama when I am not even in a relationship with her.
Most Helpful Girl
Do not play games. I doubt he will appreciate that.0