Even a simple approach can make a girl think all I want is to get into her pants. It's really bullshit because guys like me who actually like the girl have to climb a giant wall that might never end.
So we're left with guys doubting themselves, and women asking where the good men are.
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I think it depends on the approach. Usually when a guy approaches a girl in a bar, it is assumed that's what he wants. But, no matter where you are, if your intentions seem genuine that will be obvious, if a girl lets it get that far. Maybe if you kind of jump to it and ask her if you could take her out sometime, she will then know, "oh he wants to take me out, not take me home". Unfortunately, there are a lot of d bags out there simply looking to just get in a girls pants, so they ruined it for you. I have definitely encountered more of them than nice guys, but I also prefer to know someone in a casual setting vs going out with a complete stranger no matter how innocent their intentions may seem.0