So I am 19 and don't really know how to kiss, whether it's a simple kiss or french etc Everyone says it comes naturally and I don't believe it. How the f am I supposed to know he's going for a french one when I am aiming for a simple one for example lol
We are so honest with each other, I would rather tell him I don't really have any experience but I am afraid he might laugh or be turned off What should I do?
Help. please :(
He changed his mind, but thank you anyways for your help...
It's great that you are both so honest with each other, and I feel that this is a situation where you have to be just that! If this guy is decent and likes you genuinely, then it really won't bother him that you are inexperienced... He may even relish giving you the experience? If he laughs or is turned off by this, then you really have to question if he is the guy for you? No, tell him how you feel... It's no big deal in the grand scheme of life... You are young and everyone has to start somewhere. Just pucker your lips and push them against his... The simplest of kisses. Enjoy it and go from there. Allow yourself to learn and enjoy yourself while doing so. I hope this helps you... Just open up to him and hopefully he will be very understanding! :)
Relax your face muscles. Let your lips hang loose. Let them flab against his until you get the hang of what you're doing. Don't tense up, whatever you do. Tensing up is how couples start biting each other by accident. Whatever you do, don't bite him.
Most guys aren't heartless so if you think he is a good guy, tell him it is your first kiss. The best answer I can give is that there is no right or wrong answer, take it naturally. I am fairly sure nearly everybody's first kiss is awkward, nervewracking and clumsy but you get better at kissing through practice.
Don't worry, if a girl said to me "i have never kiss before" I would be more than happy to teach her the way that i like to kiss. It would be great for the relationship!! just ask him at the right time
He might feel the same way you do. If he laughs, don't be embarrassed, it means he likes you! Why would need to learn how to do that? You don't really need to learn how to kiss at all, let alone yet, do you?
It literally does come naturally. I was nervous to kiss a dude for the first time so I asked one of my girl friends to teach me / let me practice and she didn't have to coach me on anything. She told me I was a natural.
I told my boyfriend that I had never kissed before and I was much older than you are. He didn't laugh... He actually told me don't worry I'll teach you how to kiss lol But it just came naturally... just try not to giggle like I did... 😏