What qualities would I need, besides the obvious that is a kind personality, humor etc, to be able to compete with taller guys?
Would big muscles help? Playing a musical instrument? Being able to cook?
Is there anything I can do so that if a girl would have the choice between me (5'9) and another guy thats 6'2+, she would choose me?
(I am not taking into account factors like personality or chemistry, because obviously the girl is more likely to choose the guy she has chemistry and mutual interest with. Im talking very general).
Most Helpful Girl
5'9" isn't that short honestly.
Different girls are attracted to different looks. Some like the big muscle look, others don't. I personally like a lean, athletic figure, but huge muscles and a six pac aren't necessary or preferred.
Knowing how to play an instrument is attractive, yeah, but so is just generally having interesting hobbies (e. g. hiking, biking, running, reading, writing, drawing, or a sport). Be passionate about something.
Get a nice clothing style. Have nice hair. Whiten teeth. Have confidence. Be doing something with your life.0
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Most Helpful Guy
pull up in a lambo
seriously though, just be yourself and if you're an awesome guy then a not so shallow girl will notice you for that and be attracted to you0