Why is it hypocritical for someone who is not a virgin to want to date someone who is?
Is it because they are opposite?
For example, I am an introvert but I like to date extroverts.
Is this also hypocritical or is there another reason why?
Most Helpful Guy
Hypocrisy doesn't work that way. THIS is hypocrisy. "Men shouldn't hit women because violence in relationships is just wrong." and five minutes later "It's funny when a woman hits a man, he probably deserved it."
Hypocrisy is the complete reversal of your stance on an issue.
Preferences work differently.1
Most Helpful Girl
It really is:
The non-virgin thinks it's fine to sleep around and have his or her fun, but looks down on dating those who have done the exact same thing. That is the hypocritical part, "Do as I say, not as I do."
You're not hypocritical for desiring extroverts. Personality types aren't a choice, usually. Introverts and extroverts make a good balance.3