I dont understand how you get one. I dont like the whole "walking up and talking to a random girl just because of the way she looks thing" because that seems extremely superficial to me, but then I dont understand how you hang out with a girl enough to get to know her. I dont know what to do, or how to ask her to hang out, and I never see any girls enough to develop a relationship with them. How do I get a girlfriend?
Most Helpful Girl
If you're currently in school (ex. high school or college) it's the perfect time to test the waters. Break away from your comfort zone, push yourself to introduce yourself to girls you are attracted to (without doing it rudely). Maybe if there's a girl in your class. Personally, I think it's better if the individuals start out as friends first. However, the only way you'll really get to know a girl is if you hang out with her. It's not a lifetime commitment, it's just a date (or hanging out as friends). Just be yourself and don't think too much about the logistics of it all. Just have fun while you're young.0
Most Helpful Guy
Sign up for some dating websites. The best ones have more women then men. I won't disclose which one I use, but you can be sure to do fine at filipinocupid and the like.
One thing that will REALLY help you is if you ask out lots of women to lunch or dinner. Try to have at least 10 dates a week this way. The purpose is to learn what kind of woman you like and what kind of woman likes you. It is just talk, just practice.0