Don't lower your expectations Don't agree to a "fuck buddy" "no strings attached" "fwb" situation. Dating websites aren't really serious and they're mostly filled with guys who are taking to multiple women at once and just want a friends with benefits thing. DONT FALL FOR A friends with benefits AGREEMENT It's basically a guys way of saying he's ok with fucking you in private but doesn't think you're good enough to date.
Take the initiative and ask someone out on a date. Do you go out a lot? Have you put your part in finding someone? Or are you just waiting around for someone to come to you? Because it doesn't work out that way. It's like finding a job. Jobs don't just come to you. Same with finding a partner. If you just stay home you will never find someone because you don't go outside.
Always remember, anyone can just give you sex. But not everyone will give you friendship, love, or commitment.
1. you can do the asking out yourself. 2. screw the dating scene... find someone and just tell em you want to fuck. NSA sex is always better anyway. I mean... dating tends to end up being about sex so why delay... cut out the formalities... just fuck.
get out of the house where you can meet guys. do something you love to do and do it with others make yourself available to guys (some women look turned off and not approachable). aska guy out then... call one of us single guys... lol.
Get out and meet new people. Join a sports league, take a class or something that gets you meeting people and more importantly men. You never know who you'll meet. Whatever you do don't lower your standards though and date a guy just because he's there. Relationships that start because someone "has to be with someone" are generally never fulfilling.