So this guy and I have been talking about our first date and we've been talking for a week and started talking about kissing/making out with each other and I want to kiss him but certain things he said I told him I was uncomfortable doing and he said to see how it goes and he would tease me that there would be more then making out and I've told him what I thought about it and he's like don't worry, you'll enjoy it and he thought the same way I did when he had his first kiss. He also said he won't do anything that I'm not comfortable doing. Am I overthinking this? Should I just see how it goes?
Am I overthinking this?
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Run. I have fallen for this trap too many times. Sex is the only thing on his mind right now which is understandable because he is a young man but he still should respect your wishes. You two have only talked for a week and already he is wanting to kiss and make out. He should be more focused on getting to know you and the person that you are.0
Be cautious. The second you start to feel uncomfortable and like he's pressuring you to do something or feel a certain way, or is unwilling to understand how you feel or to accommodate you, leave him. Some guys are great manipulators. Just be careful.0
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