So something really strange happened today. I've been talking to this dude online, we'll call him Stanley.
Stanley seemed like a nice guy when I first started talking to him. But it became clear something was up with him, but I couldn't quite put my finger on it. Anyway, I kept talking to him thinking it was just nerves or something. Because when we would talk, he would trip up on things when he would talk to me. It was sometimes like he was confusing me with another person (you know what I mean?).
So we tried to make plans for a date. Well we made a few plans but stuff kept coming up with him. He said he had to work or something. Anyway, we stopped talking for a couple weeks and then we started talking again. He basically blamed me for not seeing me. Because he said he never knew when I was free (which is a lie, bc I told him often when I was free). Plus he always wanted to meet me last minute.
So today, this guy we will call Chad, messaged me online. He told me basically to be wary of Stanley. HE said Stanley is a smooth talker and lies a lot. He said Stanley was seeing his friend Clarrissa. Stanley told Clarrissa they were in a relationship and started sleeping together. Then Stanley left Clarrissa.
I asked Chad for more details about Stanley and the details seemed to fit what I know about Stanley.
Do you think I should believe Chad?
Has this ever happened to anyone else?
- You should believe Chad, he seems to know what's up64%(7)64%(9)Vote67%(2)
- I think you should see Stanley anyway, what does this strange Chad guy know?0%(0)0%(0)Vote0%(0)
- I'm not sure18%(2)21%(3)Vote33%(1)
- Other/will explain below18%(2)15%(2)Vote0%(0)